A Promised Land by Barack Obama – a Book Review

A Promised Land is the Presidential memoir of the 44th President of the United States, Barack Obama. Obama was a positively historic President for the US, as he was the first black President to serve as commander in chief in a country whose history is seething with racial strife. His election was a momentous occasion for millions of Americans, and it was especially important for young people of color growing up in a country that previously felt like such a position was out of their reach. He was and still is an extremely polarizing figure, either adored or demonized depending upon which side of the political divide one falls. In reality, any human individual who has ever sat in the seat in which he sat contains flaws, and he is no different. No President has ever made perfect decisions, just as no other flesh and blood person has ever made perfect decisions. The difference is that the President makes decisions in front of the entire nation and the entire world and will be forever judged by those decisions. And will also have to deal with a whole lot of malarkey flung their way, which should just be ignored, as he deftly demonstrates in this book.

Truly, I was most amazed at Obama’s determination. No matter the obstacles, he accomplished so much in the face of the worst political obstruction the United States has seen for many years. He just refused to break. He never lost his will to fight, and he never lost his good humor, which I honestly feel is his biggest accomplishment. He faced more undeserved hate than any President to come before him, and he still managed to hold onto his dignity and grace. And to the people who claim Trump received more hate, he deserved every bit of that. You receive back what you put out into the world, and I can tell you that if a man walked up to me on the street and treated me the way #45 famously treats women, he would have received the response from me he deserved. And then he would have needed medical treatment for his tiny balls if they could be located after meeting with my knee. Moving on…

Oh, how I miss this family. As with Michelle’s book, Becoming, I found myself overcome by a bit of sadness when reading A Promised Land. The reason for that should be obvious. I knew how it ended. I knew it ended with the near erosion of his legacy at the hands of someone incompetent, inept and completely devoid of intelligence or reason. As a matter of fact, one of the most fascinating parts of this presidential memoir was seeing through the President’s eyes the United States’ descent into chaos. I was encouraged by his good-natured response to the vitriol he received during his time in office, including his response to the bully Trump who jumped on the birther bandwagon to further his political ambitions, a strategy which sadly worked for him, proving there’s still a sector of the population that responds well to the alpha male neanderthal mentality. Obama was successfully able to shut out all the noise, even cracking jokes at his own expense, and stay focused on the tasks at hand, a credit to his professionalism and single-minded intensity, as well as his belief that the common good will always prevail. Sadly, this last thing many of us are still desperately hoping will one day prove to be true, as there seems to be so little goodness in the world in this the year of our Lord 2021…

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As far as content, this book is incredibly thorough and concise. It is a very detailed and expertly written account of Obama’s entire first term, which culminates with one of his crowning achievements, the killing of Osama Bin Laden by a team of real life badass superheroes without capes. His account was so detailed and so real that I felt like I was in the room with them all during the taking of that iconic photo. Obama is a natural born story teller. He narrates the audiobook himself, and it was positively divine listening to it. It has the feel of sitting in the coffee shop across the table from him while he tells his story. Though, it would be a 30 hour coffee date, so I wouldn’t drink a whole lot of coffee and make sure to take lots of breaks!

If I’m being completely honest, I’m not much of a nonfiction reader, and I tend to get lost in some of the details. Overall, I still found this book to be very enjoyable and very educational. I loved getting to see his perspective during all these events I remember and some that I didn’t remember. With him at the helm I felt a bit more comfortable coasting along and focusing on my own life, floating along dreamily in the middle of a crystal clear lake surrounded by the chattering of birds and chirps of crickets. Unlike the subsequent administration who I felt like was constantly trying to pry my fingers away while I desperately clung to the slippery railing of a speeding boat, my body dangling over an abyss of dark and murky shark-filled despair. You kind of can’t stop paying attention when you don’t feel comfortable about the direction you’re being led. Oh, how quickly the tide can turn when people get complacent. You never know when your fellow passengers are going to hand the boat keys over the side show monkey who throws poop at people and screeches maniacally just to hear himself screech.

Truly, I think this book was something I needed to read to bring myself back to center. It was a great reminder that there have always been bad times, but there have always also been people reasonable enough to take back the keys and put the monkey back in the cage so he can’t do any more damage. This book is an incredible look into the life of a complicated and honorable man, and it’s also a detailed look into the everyday struggles of a United States President, both personal and professional. It’s a fabulous dose of truth from a man whose image is often blurred by lies and misinformation. It’s nice to really get to know the human man behind this mythic fixture in American politics. 5 stars for this well-written, thorough, and captivating memoir.

Rating: 5 out of 5.

Published November 17, 2020 by Random House Audio. ASIN B08HGH9JMF. Run time 29 hrs. 10 mins. Narrated by the author.

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The Facts of Life and Death by Belinda Bauer – a Book Review

Oh my. Get ready for a deluge of book reviews. I haven’t posted much lately and have had an onslaught of sickness travel through my house so my blogging productivity took a nosedive. I will spend this next week trying to catch up on reviews and postings. At the moment I am five reviews behind and still making progress with reads. EEK! Without further ado, here is the first of five. And apologies if these particular reviews are a bit less detailed than usual for the aforementioned reasons.

Synopsis

Ten-year-old Ruby Trick lives in the small seaside village of Limeburn in Devon the United Kingdom. She adores her father, the unfortunate John Trick, an out of work and down on his luck lover of all things cowboy, and practically detests her mother, Alison, a woman we readers can quickly glean is much more complicated than Ruby imagines. A masked assailant begins to terrorize the women of Limeburn and his antics quickly turn deadly. When John takes Ruby along on his “posse” to track down the killer, Ruby finds herself facing potentially deadly consequences for herself and her family.

Review

First of all, I really loved Ruby as a character. I found her charming and flawed in a way that only an author who truly understands the complexity of children could create. As a mother, her initial devotion to her father and hatred of her mother really struck me, but I feel this is accurate. Children don’t often understand the nuance of parental relationships. Ruby only saw her mother as a villain. She didn’t see the subtle ways her mother protected her. And she didn’t see the ways in which her father wasn’t exactly an ideal parent. Welcome to the frustration of parenting. Your kids usually hate you for all the wrong reasons. *sigh*

Bauer did an excellent job with all her characters. I especially liked the detective duo, DCI Kirsty King and DC Calivin Bridge. They added a lot to the overall tone of the book. I found their humorous passages to lighten an otherwise pretty bleak and miserable plot. I think that can be important in books like this where the crimes are often so horrifying they tempt you to stop reading. While I felt, ultimately, the detectives really added nothing substantial to the conclusion of the story, they were still pretty important in the overall scheme of things if only to bring a smile to our faces. I do wish we’d been given a bit more closure to their story, but that’s really not ultimately that important to the narrative. Honestly, the more important aspect of the story is Ruby’s overall growth and development in the face of the obstacles she faces. It’s her coming to terms with the complexities of life and relationships, as well as finding out the important life lesson that people are much more complex than in the black and white version of them in your head.

Here’s one of my only fairly minor (maybe minor???) nitpicks. This was our book club book selection for the month. There were some really subtle but extremely important parts of this book that simply escaped the attention of more than half our members. Bauer tends to nudge readers in a certain direction but never really comes out and says what she means, and sometimes these concepts are dropped completely before they come to full fruition. If a reader isn’t paying EXTREMELY close attention, they can miss an important piece of information. In our case, more of us missed the details than actually picked up on them, and that’s a bit of a problem in my opinion. Now, I don’t mean big important things like who the killer is, etc. As a matter of fact, there’s really not a lot of mystery to this thriller. You know who the killer is pretty dang early. I see this more as a coming of age story than a murder mystery, and I’m pretty ok with that fact. The details I’m referring to deal more with character traits and past events that shape our characters, and they were pretty major things.

Overall, I would say this book is an extremely enjoyable and very quick read with some minor flaws. The characters and the crimes are quite compelling, though the crimes are extremely distressing in nature. Consider this a fair warning to readers who are sensitive to such things. Considering all factors, I give this one an overall 3.5 stars.

Rating: 3.5 out of 5.

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Reading Challenge Update – Oct 1, 2021

Oops! I usually try to post my reading challenge updates at the end of the month and I dropped the ball yesterday. I’m really pleased with the progress I’ve made on the reading challenge, and I currently have two categories in the works so I’m confident I can finish with three months left to go. I’ve already read 51 books this year, so I’ve nearly met my goodreads goal, but I doubled up some categories so I’ll have to well surpass that 52 in order to hit them all. Here’s where I stand right now.

1. A Productivity BookStop Living on Autopilot by Antonio Neves – completed
2. Book Becoming Movie in 2021 The Reincarnationist Papers by D. Eric Maikranz – completed
3. Goodreads Winner in 2020 – The Midnight Library – by Matt Haig – completed
4. Biography
5. About a Pressing Social Issue – The Garden of Burning Sand by Corban Addison – completed, It Ends With Us by Colleen Hoover – completed
6. A Book About BooksThe Bookshop of Yesterdays by Amy Meyerson – completed
7. Set in the 1920s – The Maid’s Version by Daniel Woodrell – completed
8. An Author Who Uses Initials – The Invisible Life of Addie LaRue by V.E. Schwab – completed
9. Poetry – New Poems by Rilke – completed
10. A 2020 BestsellerAnxious People by Fredrik Backman – completed
11. Recommended by a Colleague
12. With a Number in the Title – Slaughterhouse-Five by Kurt Vonnegut – completed. One Two Three by Laurie Frankel – completed
13. Bottom of Your To-Read List
14. Reread a Favorite Book
15. Own Voices Story – March by John Lewis – completed
16. Published in the 1800s
17. Local Author – Drifting by Steven Cross – completed
18. Longer Than 400 Pages – The Once and Future Witches by Alix E. Harrow – completed
19. A Book Turned Into a TV Series – Nine Perfect Strangers by Liane Moriarty – completed
20. A Book That Makes You ThinkAntkind by Charlie Kaufman – completed, Peaces by Helen Oyeyemi – completed
21. A WWII Story – The Willow Wren by Philipp Schott – completed
22. A Highly Anticipated Book – Project Hail Mary by Andy Weir- completed
23. Eye-Catching Cover – House of Hollow by Krystal Sutherlandcompleted, The Nature of Witches by Rachel Griffin – completed
24. A Summer ReadThe Flatshare by Beth O’Leary – completed, The Unlikely Adventures of the Shergill Sisters by Balli Kaur Jaswal – completed
25. Coming of Age Story – Homegoing by Yaa Gyasi – completed, The Facts of Life and Death by Belinda Bauer – completed, review pending
26. Bestselling Memoir – In the Dream House by Carmen Maria Machado– completed
27. Book Club FavoriteSouthern Book Club’s Guide to Slaying Vampires by Grady Hendrix – completed
28. A Book About FriendshipThe Soul of an Octopus by Sy Montgomery – completed, How Lucky by Will Leitch – completed,Radiant: The Dancer, the Scientist, and a Friendship Forged in Light by Liz Heinecke – completed
29. An Audiobook – Walking With Ghosts: A Memoir by Gabriel Byrne – completed
30. Set in Australia
31. By a Nobel Prize winner
32. About an Immigrant – Daughter of Fortune by Isabel Allende – completed
33. Time Travel Novel – Before the Coffee Gets Cold by Toshikazu Kawaguchi– completed
34. An Author You Love
35. Childhood FavoriteTales of a Fourth Grade Nothing by Judy Blume – completed
36. Classic Read in High School
37. Borrowed from the Library –Faye, Faraway by Helen Fisher – completed, Nothing to See Here by Kevin Wilson – completed, The Girl in His Shadow by Audrey Blake – completed
38. Nonfiction New York Times Bestseller – A Promised Land by Barack Obama – in progress
39. From an Indie Publisher – The Enlightenment of the Greengage Tree by Shokoofeh Azar – completed
40. Fantasy – The Absolute Book by Elizabeth Knox – completed
41. A Sequel – The Secret Keeper of Jaipur by Alka Joshi – completed
42. Recommended by a Librarian
43. Psychological ThrillerIn the Garden of Spite by Camilla Bruce – completed, The Comfort of Monsters by Willa C. Richards – completed, Verity by Colleen Hoover – completed
44. Oprah Winfrey Book Club PickThe Sweetness of Water by Nathan Harris- in progress
45. A Book About Technology – The Future is Yours by Dan Frey – completed
46. Title with Three Words – Home Before Dark by Riley Sager– completed
47. Debut Novel of Famous Author – The Mysterious Affair at Styles by Agatha Christie – completed
48. Genre You Don’t Usually Read – Code of the Hills: An Ozarks Mystery by Nancy Allen – completed
49. A Book Everyone Is Talking About – American Dirt by Jeanine Cummins – completed.
50. You Own But Haven’t Read
51. Borrowed from a Friend – The Hypnotist’s Love Story by Liane Moriarty– completed
52. A 2021 New Release – The Lost Apothecary by Sarah Penner – completed

Categories Completed: 39. Categories in progress: 2. Books completed: 51. Books left to complete: 13, including in progress reads.

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WWW Wednesday – September 29, 2021

Welcome to new week of WWW Wednesday! I’m a bit behind at the moment. I still have one of my reviews to catch up on, and I unfortunately haven’t finished anything this week. So this is going to be a pretty short post! Eek! WWW is a weekly series hosted by Sam at Taking on a World of Words. In it, bloggers share their reading progress and plans for the coming week. Let’s get started!

The Three Ws are:

  • What are you currently reading?
  • What have you just finished reading?
  • What will you read next?

What am I currently reading?

Same two books as before. I have made a lot of progress on Obama’s A Promised Land. I am on track 19 of 33. I really have to spend a lot of time on this, because it’s an overdrive audio and it will expire soon. Since it’s on such a long hold list, they won’t let me renew it. I’m committed to finishing by the time my checkout expires in 10 days. Forge on, I will! I’m already terribly late turning in my hardback copy of The Sweetness of Water, but I’m determined to finish and pay whatever fine it is I owe.

What have I just finished reading?

What Will I Read next?

I am going to start the same book I planned before, Apples of Stone by Philip Marsh. I saw his brother yesterday at work and verified I would be picking it up soon, so I am really truly committed now. Until next time, happy reading! Hopefully I’ll have more to share next week.

What’s going on with you? Feel free to share your posts or comment with your reading progress this week. And look for my review of The Facts of Life and Death by Belinda Bauer to post soon.

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Verity by Colleen Hoover – a Book Review

This is an incredibly different book than the last Hoover novel I read, It Ends With Us. There are some similarities. Again with the odd naming conventions, though I do rather like the name Verity Crawford. There is also a very intense undercurrent of abuse, though in this case it is pretty intense child abuse versus the spousal abuse from the first, so be warned. Otherwise, whereas It Ends With Us is a pretty straightforward plot, this one is twisty and intriguing with more than a few curve balls.

Synopsis

Lowen Ashleigh has been down on her luck for some time. Her mother has just died after a long illness, her career is floundering, and she’s completely broke and on the precipice of homelessness. When the enigmatic and handsome Jeremy Crawford enters the picture to make an employment offer, she has no choice but to take the job despite it making her uncomfortable. She moves into Jeremy’s home to sift through the papers of Jeremy’s wife, the famous author, Verity Crawford. After an accident, Verity is in a vegetative state and Lowen has been hired to take over authorship of Verity’s famous book series. When Lowen uncovers a secret autobiography penned by Verity, she uncovers secrets that could hurt Jeremy and his son, two people Lowen has grown to care for deeply. Things get worse for her when strange things start occurring in the house, leading Lowen to believe things are not actually as they seem.

Review

This is a wild ride. This book is extremely dark and disturbing. I loved the setting. The house has such a creepy, gothic vibe which is just accentuated by the anxiety-fueled plot. This is a book you do not want to put down, even though each subsequent chapter brings more and more shocks that will disturb you to your core. Honestly, as a mother, the really intense chapters involving such blatant and severe child abuse were a lot to take in. I would urge anyone who finds such subjects in literature traumatic to steer clear of this book. But if you can stomach it, this is a worthwhile read.

The character development in this book was pretty strong. I didn’t necessarily LIKE Lowen, but she was a solid character. She was complex with a lot of depth and nuance. Jeremy was an extremely effective character. Through the entirety of the book, I couldn’t really figure out if I should trust him. I wanted to like him, but there was just something about everyone who lived in that household that pushed me to believe there was more going on in the story, even with Jeremy. Is he a hero or a villain? I won’t spoil anything by telling you which way his character went. But I will tell you that it’s very difficult to gauge the actual pulse of this book. Hoover does an excellent job keeping you guessing and an even better job of throwing in some shocks even after you’ve thought you’ve figured everything out. It all culminates in a final chapter so explosive it leaves you in utter disbelief.

If I had one thing to quibble with, it’s the exact same thing I had against the last Hoover book. Colleen Hoover really likes to write sex scenes. These, on the whole, don’t bother me so much. But literally everything can become tedious when employed to an excessive degree. Frankly, I’m more interested in the story and where we wind up. Just a small smattering of sex scenes that illustrate how great Jeremy is in bed would have sufficed. And yes, I realize there’s a whole genre of book devoted solely to the idea that sex sells, but I guess erotica just isn’t really my thing.

Frankly, I think I’ve said about all I can without giving away too much. This is definitely a suspenseful read that will keep you guessing, and it’s a very effective work of fiction. Overall, I give it 4 stars.

Rating: 4 out of 5.
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WWW Wednesday – September 22, 2021

Welcome to a new week of WWW Wednesday! I’m happy to have some progress to report today. Also, I’ve posted two book reviews today and still have two more to write! I’ve obviously fallen a bit behind in that department, which is why this is a nice to post to do to catch my breath. WWW is a weekly series hosted by Sam at Taking on a World of Words. In it, bloggers share their reading progress and plans for the coming week. Let’s get started!

The Three Ws are:

  • What are you currently reading?
  • What have you just finished reading?
  • What will you read next?

What am I currently reading?

I am currently reading my Oprah’s Book Club selection for the Reading challenge, The Sweetness of Water by Nathan Harris. I’m not very far into this, but I’m kicking things into high gear today because I need to get it returned to the library ASAP. It’s overdue and on hold so I can’t renew it. Oops. I also just started A Promised Land by Barack Obama and I have literally listened to this every chance I could possibly get over the past two days and have already made my way through a full third of the book. It’s very engaging and I’m enjoying it very much, so that helps. I hope to have it finished by this time next week if things keep going the way they have lately.

What have I just finished reading?

I just finished reading the book club selection on audio. It was called The Facts of Life and Death by Belinda Bauer. This was an exhilarating read, for sure! It could be really difficult to read, at times, due to the nature of the murders. I should have a review for this one in the next couple of days. I also finished my other Colleen Hoover book, Verity. My word, that was a wild ride. It’s a completely different book from It Ends With Us. I will find it difficult to review without getting into spoilers, so it might be a short review.

What Will I Read Next?

Honestly, I don’t really want to pick an audio to do next because I’m always changing my mind anyway. In hard copy, I’m going to pick up another selection by a local author, because it’s a book loaned to me by the author’s family and I’ve already been sitting on it too long. Since I’ll have caught up on library books, it’s time to pick up Apples of Stone by Phillip Marsh. Odds are you have not heard of this book or the author until now. I have no idea what to expect, and I hope to have something to share soon.

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The Girl in His Shadow by Audrey Blake – a Book Review

Audrey Blake is the pen name of not one author, but of two. Authors Regina Sirois and Jaima Fixsen teamed up to write this riveting and intelligent work of historical fiction about a young woman who develops a passion for medicine after being orphaned in the cholera epidemic and growing up in the home of the eccentric doctor who saved her life. This book is a tribute to the real life pioneers in medicine, not only the women who defied the odds to follow careers in a field that barred them on the basis of sex, but to the men who championed the intellects of their female peers, risking damage to their reputations and careers for their principles against sexism.

Synopsis

Nora Beady, after being left an orphan when cholera raged through London, is raised in the home of Horace Croft, a fiercely intelligent but eccentric physician. In 1845, Nora quietly cultivates her own secret career in medicine, assisting Dr. Croft with treating patients, surgical procedures, and autopsies. She reads the same literature as he does, and voraciously feeds the appetite of her curiosity, knowing full well the damage done to both her own future and Dr. Croft’s if she were to be exposed. When a young doctor arrives unexpectedly to join Dr. Croft’s practice, it threatens to bring about the demise of everything Nora has built for herself.

Review

This novel is full of intensely well researched medical information. The two collective authors who are Audrey Blake did an impeccable job of researching this. It’s also exceptionally exciting despite all the detail. I never really found myself getting bogged down, as I typically feel I would with something so scientifically detailed. The characters are rich and compelling. I especially liked Dr. Croft, a man whose genius is only marred by his distraction from mundane matters of life and propensity toward laser focus on his career. He is muddled, cluttered, and still infinitely charming. Nora is a complex woman of character. She’s both stubborn and genuine, and her intelligence is unrivaled, even amongst those male peers who would never stoop to seeing a woman as their peer.

Another fascinating and wonderful character is Daniel Gibson, the young and inexperienced doctor who joins Dr. Croft’s practice in order to learn from the master. I loved his story arc, and it was incredibly believable and authentic. Here is a man stuck between his adherence to things as he’s always been taught they should be and a niggling suspicion that what has always been acceptable isn’t necessarily what is right. Daniel is a fabulous figure representing progress. With an open mind, prejudice can be replaced by enlightenment. History is shaped by these heroic people. If it weren’t for the Nora’s and Daniel’s of the world, we wouldn’t have come as far as we have today. Progress is contagious, but only if we spread the seeds of intellect.

What Blake has written is a story that isn’t often told. In the world of historical fiction, this is a unique work of literature, and I’m so glad they undertook the task. I would highly recommend this book to fans of authors like Geraldine Brooks, a well researched work of historical fiction that is detailed, compelling, and well paced. The driving force of the novel is the fabulous character development, which leads the reader to truly care about the fate of Nora and her friends, leaving us on the edge of our seats as their world seems to come crashing down around them. I also applaud the fierce and unapologetic feminist undercurrent from which the authors never sway. While there is a tad bit of romance in the story, it never distracts from the more important narrative driving Nora’s story.

I give this one 4 1/2 stars. Exceptional historical fiction novel, and I can’t wait for the sequel!

Rating: 4.5 out of 5.

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It Ends With Us by Colleen Hoover – a Book Review

This is the first book I’ve read by Colleen Hoover. I picked it up spontaneously. I saw the audiobook on Overdrive and remembered a friend talking about it, so I downloaded it then and there. In order to get a good idea of what Hoover’s books are really like, I don’t believe this is the best one to start with. I don’t mean that in a bad way. It’s just that this book comes from a much deeper, much more personal place for Hoover. In the afterward, she details how she grew up watching her mother suffer the abuses of her father. This novel was, in a way, Hoover’s way of working through the complex web of emotions surrounding her childhood and her relationships with her parents.

Synopsis

Lily Blossom Bloom (no, I’m not kidding) has just about everything she could ever want. She’s an independent entrepreneur with a fledgling business (flower shop… nope, still not kidding) that’s proving to be quite successful, she has a great new best friend, and she’s dating an incredibly sexy and successful neurosurgeon who seems positively smitten with her. As is often the case, however, things are not always as they seem from the outside. The handsome and charming Ryle has a dark side, and Lily will be further tested with the return of her first love, Atlas Corrigan.

Review

If there’s one thing Colleen Hoover does well, it’s build and keep suspense. She’s gifted in a certain regard, in that her books are intensely readable. So readable, in fact, you really don’t want to stop reading. Despite whatever faults her books may have, you simply can’t put them down. As far as character, I did like Lily. I couldn’t really identify with her much, but I found her charming and likable. I enjoyed the little tidbits of the past we got through Lily’s journal, which she adorably penned to Ellen Degeneres, which was a nice touch. She wrote to Ellen instead of herself, as her favorite thing to do when she was younger was to watch the Ellen show. As an adult, Lily rereads her journal and revisits the moments she first met and fell in love with Atlas, including the tragic and awful events that caused the demise of their relationship.

This will sound strange, but the one character I had issue with was Ryle. I know, I’m supposed to have an issue with Ryle. It’s complicated. First of all, I feel like I was supposed to like him at first, but I was initially put off. Where some people saw him as initially charming, I saw him as way too assertive and almost sleezy. My spidey senses were immediately tingling and I was mentally begging Lily to run in the opposite direction. Sure, he was intriguing, but I didn’t understand how Lily could have fallen for him at all. Therefore, I couldn’t understand the intensity of her feelings for him later in the novel when she’s desperately holding on despite all the new information she’s gleaned. All that being said, I do understand that’s sort of the point. Let me explain.

Hoover’s entire point with this novel is to enter the mind of an abused spouse. Most of us on the outside looking in to a relationship like this can’t understand why the person stays. It’s completely unfathomable for most of us to allow someone to treat us that way, but it’s so much more complicated than we could ever fathom. This novel is her exploration of that relationship dynamic. I do believe it’s effective, though I still can’t understand Lily’s initial attraction to Ryle beyond the physical. Her relationship with Atlas was much more easy to grasp. If anything, Atlas was a little too perfect. He needed a flaw of some sort. Honestly, he didn’t seem human.

There are ways I can identify with Ryle’s story. His backstory is so heartbreaking and tragic and, while it doesn’t excuse his behavior at all, it does provide a little context for the mental and emotional turmoil he faces which lead him to act the way he does. But here’s the thing. How does no one in this book think to encourage him to seek mental and emotional help? Full disclosure, in my own relationship, I recognize aspects of Ryle. My own husband deals with anger issues, though they don’t manifest in the same way. He never has physically harmed me or my children. If he had, I wouldn’t still live in the same home. But he does struggle with anger and intense frustration, and all of it goes back to his constant struggles going back to childhood, and the same can be said of Ryle. Alcohol seems to be a trigger for both men, lifting the restraints on their anger and unleashing something they no longer can control. This is the reason I’ve always had an issue with my husband drinking. He’s not the kind of person who should ever lose control. That and his family’s propensity toward truly toxic alcoholism. Drinking is a very slippery slope for them, so it should honestly be avoided completely.

Considering all of this, this book became pretty profound for me. I can understand Lily making excuses for her husband. Though not as severe, I have literally done the exact same kind of rationalization. I have conveniently changed stories, lied about how something got broken or damaged, because I didn’t want anyone to know what had really happened. They would judge him. They would judge me for putting up with it. C’est la vie. This book gave me a lot to think about, to be honest.

Totally shifting gears to something a bit lighter, I’m probably going to profess a pretty unpopular opinion here. The sex got annoying. Yeah, I know… go ahead and laugh. I am not one to shy away from eroticism and when used effectively, it can be nice. I just felt like it was a bit much in this book. Sometimes it overpowered the narrative, and I felt like sex was really the only tie between Lily and Ryle. They didn’t seem to have much else besides a truly explosive love life. Like rabbits, really. Ryle had a propensity toward getting a bit… well, riled… in more ways than one.

Overall, I felt this was a very readable book with a very important message. There were some petty annoyances. The odd naming conventions, for one, and Hoover’s habit of over-doing certain things. In addition to the sex, I got really tired of hearing about how rich Ryle’s sister and her husband were. Seriously, I get it. They have money. In the grand scheme of things, I’m inclined to give this one a 3.

Rating: 3 out of 5.
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WWW Wednesday – September 15, 2021 #wwwwednesday

Well, I’m back. Last week I missed WWW Wednesday due to the sickness in our house that kept me at home. The kids keep me a bit too busy for blogging so I tend to not get anything done. Thankfully, that means I have nothing but progress to report this week.

WWW Wednesday is a weekly meme where bloggers share weekly progress and plans for future reading endeavors. This meme is hosted by Sam at Taking on a World of Words.

The Three Ws are:

  • What are you currently reading?
  • What have you just finished reading?
  • What will you read next?

What am I currently reading?

I’m currently reading the book club selection on audio. It is The Facts of Life and Death by Belinda Bauer. So far this is an incredibly exciting book and its kept me on the edge of my seat. Things are really starting to get moving at this point. I’m also reading Verity by Colleen Hoover. It’s a very fast read, and I also find this one very exciting. It’s been difficult to put down, which has caused me to get a bit less sleep this week because I keep staying up late to read more. I hope to finish it today.

What have I just finished reading?

Speaking of Colleen Hoover, I just happened to read two books of hers almost simultaneously. And that was really just a coincidence and not something I did purposefully. They are two very different books. The one I just finished is It Ends With Us. I haven’t yet gotten my review finished of this one. I listened to it on audio, and it was a really enjoyable read despite the heavy subject matter. I also finished the historical fiction novel I was reading, The Girl in His Shadow. I really enjoyed this one and I’m glad I stumbled across it. I have both of these reviews to work on this week, but I’m doing a lot more reading due to due dates at the library for books that I can’t renew.

What Will I Read Next?

Next I will read The Sweetness of Water by Nathan Harris. I’m finally getting back to the reading challenge. This one takes the place of the Oprah’s Book Club pick for the reading challenge. I really need to get cracking on the last few categories or I won’t get finished despite surpassing the 52 books for the end of the year. I’ve done a lot of duplicating, especially lately. I will also probably get the chance to pick up A Promised Land by Barack Obama. It came available for me on Overdrive but I put a freeze on it until I get the book club book finished. I anticipate it will be ready for me again in a few days, hopefully just enough time for me to get done with the other one. Then I’ll be able to tackle this monster of a book, which will also take a place on the reading challenge as the Nonfiction New York Times bestseller.

That’s it for me! What have you accomplished this week? What do you plan next! Thanks for stopping by, and happy reading!

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Sunshine Blogger Award

I am here with my first every Sunshine Blogger award! Thanks so much to Leslie at Books are the New Black for the nomination and some seriously great questions. It took me a few days to get to this. One of the kiddos got sick so my routine got seriously messed up this week and I spent a few days doing everything but blogging. What a great post to come back with.

WHAT IS THE SUNSHINE BLOGGER AWARD?

The Sunshine Blogger award is given to those who are creative, positive and inspiring while spreading sunshine into the blogging community. Each blogger chosen is given questions by the nominating blogger, and they will then:

  • Thank the blogger(s) who nominated them in a blog post and link back to their blog.
  • Answer the 11 questions sent by the person who nominated them.
  • Nominate 11 new blogs to receive the award and write them 11 new questions.
  • List the rules and display the award logo in your post and/or on your blog.

Here are Leslie’s questions:

What are you currently reading?

I’m currently reading a historical fiction book called In His Shadow by Audrey Blake, which is actually a pseudonym shared by two different women, Regina Sirois and Jaima Fixsen. I’m really enjoying it despite the fact it’s very full of medical jargon. From the cover, it sort of has a softer vibe more similar to a romance novel, but it’s quite intricate and has a really strong feminist undercurrent. I was really expecting something completely different and I’m pleasantly surprised by how much I’m enjoying it. Looking forward to finishing it today. I’m also listening to Colleen Hoover’s It Ends With Us, which is a novel recommended by a friend. Honestly, I’m not really sure how I feel about this one yet. I’ll get back to you.

What is your most anticipated read this year? If you’ve read it… did it live up to your expectations?

My most anticipated read I haven’t read yet. It’s Apples Never Fall by Liane Moriarty. I look forward to any new Moriarty read and have so far been through them all. This one I should be able to read soon.

Have you read a book that surprised you this year (good or bad)?

Unfortunately, this isn’t a good surprise. I found myself pretty surprised by how disappointed I was in The Nature of Witches. I wasn’t very nice to that one in a review, and I’d had high hopes for it. I was seeing good reviews come in for it and the cover was extremely appealing. Sadly, it did not live up to my expectations.

Which book has the nicest cover on your bookshelf?

Oooh, this is a good question. I’m going to have to say the nicest cover is for my leatherbound Yale Shakespeare collection. This isn’t a very readable book. I’ve never actually read out of it because it could be used as a murder weapon if dropped from a certain height, but it’s more decorative and I keep it on the top shelf of my bookshelves with the other nicer books.

What are your favorite blog posts to read?

I would say I’m a bit more traditional, in that I love a good book review. I enjoy reading spoiler free reviews for books, that is, as this is where I get a lot of my TBR’s. I also like the WWW Wednesday posts where I get to see the progress of my colleagues and get a quick overview of what they liked/didn’t like throughout the week.

Do you judge a book by its cover?

Yes, absolutely. And as I alluded to in my post about the surprise, this can sometimes bite me in the ass. Some books look incredible based on the cover and then wind up being a letdown. I will say this… I won’t usually NOT read a book because the cover isn’t extremely compelling. But I will sometimes read one because the cover draws me in. I guess what I’m saying is it takes a lot more than a cover to get me to read something but if I’m just walking through the library or a book store, I will allow a cover to grab me and pique my interest. I hope that makes sense.

What is the most recent book that made you laugh out loud?

Oh my… Hmm… good question. I’ve done some mild chuckling to some recent reads, but the last book that left me in stitches was probably Erotic Stories for Punjabi Widows. That book was positively delightful.

Do you have any hobbies besides books and blogging about them?

Hmm… while I’ve really let myself go by way of hobbies lately, I have recently started playing piano again. I used to do it a lot and after getting married and having kids I let it slide. My husband seems to be going through some kind of mid-life thing where he’s decided to pick up the saxophone as a new hobby at age 40, so I decided it’s about time for me to get back into music as well. Boy am I rusty, but I’m bent on getting back into the swing of things. I also really enjoy doing jigsaw puzzles from time to time. And I often allow myself to get way too frustrated with Bingo Blitz on my phone. It’s a problem, and I’m working on it.

What was your last 5 star read?

I have read a book I gave 4 1/2 stars to (One Two Three by Laurie Frankel) but the last full-on 5 star book I read was Project Hail Mary back in May. I positively adored that book and couldn’t really think of anything that Weir could have improved upon. I can’t wait for the movie, despite the fact that I think Ryan Gosling is a terrible choice for Ryland Grace simply because he’s not at all what I see in my head. No offense, Ryan, but boo…

What was in your last book haul?

Ok, here’s a terrible truth. It has seriously been a minute since I’ve done a book haul. I haven’t bought a book in ages. Perhaps it’s Covid or just the busyness of life but I just haven’t been to a bookstore at all. I think the last time I received books that were actually purchased was when my husband gifted me two books for my birthday, I Am Mahala and Becoming. And that was for my birthday two years ago. I’ve also bought a couple of books online from authors I follow. They were Night Witch in Berlin by Joanna Brady and The Women of the Copper Country by Mary Doria Russell and both were several months ago, at least. EEK! Maybe I need to plan a trip somewhere.

What is your favorite color?

My favorite color is green. I think that’s because, to me, green represents life. Without green things in this world nothing would be possible and we wouldn’t be here at all, so I think it’s the most beautiful and most important color.

Hope you’ve enjoyed visiting with me for my first Sunshine Blogger Award post.

For the bloggers I tag, here are your questions:

  1. Do you have a book or author that first got you into reading? If so, what or who is it?
  2. What book do you find yourself recommending the most to other readers?
  3. To which character in a book do you find yourself identifying with the most and why?
  4. Do you have a book in mind in which you actually wound up liking the movie adaptation better than the book? *GASP, I know, but I find that we all usually have at least 1 (Looking at you, Forrest Gump)* lol
  5. To which Hogwarts house do you belong, or is HP not your thing?
  6. What’s one food that you could eat every day for the rest of your life and not get tired of it?
  7. If you were stranded on a desert island, what 3 things would you not be able to live without?
  8. Unpopular opinion time… name a book that you seemed to have the opposite reaction to than the majority of other readers. Either they loved it and you hated it or vice versa…
  9. If you could live anywhere other than where you do right now, where would it be?
  10. What’s the perfect place for reading? comfy chair at home, coffee shop, outdoors? What do you think?
  11. What do you find to be the most surprising aspect of having a book blog?

I’m nominating the following bloggers for the Sunshine Blogger Award. These are all bloggers who have wonderful, inspiring bookish content and they are a joy to follow. Check them out! Amy Leigh Reads Tessa Talks Books Charley with Books and Bakes Jolie with Read With Me Lori at Fifty-Two Books Adira with Introvert Interrupted Molly with Silver Button Books Laurel-Rain Snow Lisa at Bookshelf Fantasies Jess at The Booked Reader Ahaqir at Books of Brilliance

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